Engaged with no date?
I see on here often that a girl is engaged with no date set. Now my grandparents say if you don’t have a ring and you don’t have a date, you just have pillow talk and you aren’t engaged. I heard a similar statement on a judge show recently. You don’t have a date you aren’t engaged to be married. I am not sure what I think about this. I mean, obviously if there is a reason–like still in college and when I graduate we will set a date, it would be hard to know until your last semester. I mean things happen and you may need another class to graduate. Or you are focused on passing the bar and don’t have time to plan a wedding, when you need to set a career in place. But in general I think those that are engaged 4 or more years with no date are living in denial. I mean he didn’t set a date b/c he wants an escape route. And definitely no ring is no commitment.
What do you think? No date set for a wedding. Are you really engaged? Is there a hard and fast rule?
I totally agree with your grandparents – it’s what my mom always told me.
Actually, if you think of it maturely, it’s really true. If marriage is proposed, and a man gives a ring of a symbol of the promise to get married – then the only engagement ‘time’ needed is the time necessary to plan the wedding. For us, it was eight months. Depending upon where people live, sometimes you have to book things a year in advance, such as the church/minister, caterer, venue, band…
It’s pretty stupid to be engaged for longer than a year – there’s just no point. It’s kind of like shacking up and playing house – just fun, no commitment.
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